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Vintage Autumn Flower Bouquets watercolor
Vintage Autumn Flower Bouquets watercolor


luke frederick mallett white

24 October 2024 | 3:00 PM

The Crazy Bear at Stadhampton


The Story So Far

One balmy summer Puerto Pollença evening the drinks were flowing and the night was young A vivacious young tourist sweeps into the square from the paseo and a handsome scuba loving ex pat heads out for the evening fate brings them together for the first time Unprepared for the significance of this meeting garbled one liners and coy smiles are exchanged They barely communicate with fertive glances and accidental bumps on the dance floor yet it feels like home Sadly the evening fades into morning and they part reluctantly expecting never to meet again Fast forward 1 year She has a one way ticket to Mallorca and a sparkling new job and he is first to the bar with the irresistible promise of a 43 and coke filled with hope and excitement and 2 blocks of ice Strangers to Best Friends in an instant friends to lovers in a breath But looking back Soulmates from that first look The rest is history and 8 years on they flourish as individuals and as a pair still best friends and now with a shared love for Fleur Bear And so it s time to tie the knot Time to celebrate with everyone they love Time to say I do forever for all to hear Who say s holiday romances never last

Frequently Asked


Can we bring the kids ?

We love your kids, but thought you could use the night off! Adults-only, please and thank you!

Dinner is free, but what about the booze?

We can't wait to celebrate with you and fill your tummies with delicious food.

We will provide some beverages throughout the day and on your tables but for anything else it will be a cash bar, so please bring cash or a credit card to enjoy the wonderful bar full of any drinks you can think of!

Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Yes! You can also approach the accessibility desk at reception for other accessibility accommodations you might need.

Can we stay the night before the wedding?

Of course! But accommodation for that night will need to be sorted by you and you will need to let myself or Luke know, and we can try and get the best value price for you.

Can i bring a plus 1?

No plus 1's I'm afraid. Unless previously agreed with the bride and groom.


Get your glad rags on, its BLACK TIE.

Do we book our own accommodations ?

When you RSVP before the deadline, let us know if you want to take advantage of the 25% discount for BB in the Crazy Bear Accommodation. If you seek elsewhere you will have to book that yourself with transport to and from the hotel, but we are happy to help as much as we can :)

The 23 bedrooms are available with a 25% discount applied as per below.

Tiny Room x1 @ £149

Deluxe Rooms x5 @ £249 -

Superior Rooms x1 @ £299

Junior Suites x3 @ £345

Suites x13 @ £375 each -

Sold Out Stamp

Whats the address and where do we park?

The Address is - The Crazy Bear, Bear Ln, Stadhampton, Oxford OX44 7UR

For those arriving in private cars, taxis etc. There is a big car park outside the front of the building.

For guests taking public transport we have attached some information below.

Closest Train Station to Stadhampton

-Radley, Culham, Appleford, Didcot Parkway and Oxford.

White lilies bouquet. Watercolor lily flower illustration.


Baby breath flower watercolor
Baby breath flower watercolor

We ask if you'd like to leave us a wedding gift, that you leave a donation for our dream honeymoon in our joint account savings pot.

If you wish to send these over the details are as follows and use your name as reference.



Bank: CHASE Bank

Account number: 12643435

Sort code: 60-84-07

ref- your name


RSVP before 30/04/2024


RSVP via email to mrandmrsmallettwhite@outlook.com with your allergies and any other questions you might have.

Cocktail sketch. Mojito.
Cocktail sketch.